POTSDAM Katherine A. Skiff wanted a fall wedding. She wanted to be married in the same place her parents were, the same place her aunt and uncle were, the same place she and her brother were baptized. She wanted to be married on the campus where her grandfather served as chaplain for more than a decade, a school so many of her family members call their alma mater. She wanted to be married in St. Lawrence Universitys Gunnison Memorial Chapel today.
But it was not to be.
A fire early Sunday destroyed the chapels steeple less than a week before the wedding. The interior suffered water damage as firefighters quenched the blaze.
When she heard the news, Ms. Skiff and her fiance, Matthew K. Francis, hoped there was still some way to make their dream wedding happen.
At first I still thought we were going to be able to make it work, she said.
As the extent of the damage became clear, the couple learned it would be impossible.
Although officials still are assessing the damage to the chapel, Mr. Francis and Ms. Skiff will have their fall wedding; the community came together to find them a new place to wed.
The Winthrop couple will be married today, not beneath a ruined steeple in Canton, but at Potsdams First Presbyterian Church, another house of worship with family ties for Ms. Skiff. Ms. Skiffs grandfather, the Rev. Varre A. Cummins, was pastor there from 1957 until he took the chaplain position at St. Lawrence University from 1964 to 1987.
Im feeling very blessed. I feel like the community, Canton and Potsdam, have just wrapped their arms around us, Ms. Skiff said.
Plenty of hectic planning and minor disasters precede even a perfect wedding, but that the couples dream location literally collapsed took things to a whole new level.
The disaster sparked a week of rapid-fire planning for the couple and community members who helped make sure the wedding would go on.
Theres been a lot of last-minute trying to contact people, Mr. Francis said.
Family members have been called, plans have been altered and scores of programs had to be reprinted to reflect the change in location.
Were taking it pretty well, Ms. Skiff said. I only got teary one time.
Some plans remain unchanged. The couple still will be married by the Rev. Kathleen Buckley, St. Lawrence Universitys chaplain.
As for Mr. Francis, he said he will just be happy when the hectic week is over and the couple is happily wed and on its way to the Dominican Republic.
Were getting through it. Im glad the honeymoon is right after, he said.
They havent given up their dream of a service at St. Lawrence University, with an offer from the Rev. Ms. Buckley they couldnt refuse. Mr. and Mrs. Francis will renew their vows on their first anniversary under the repaired steeple at Gunnison Memorial Chapel.